Last week I shared that my amazing Husband turned 40 (here). Saturday Midge and I hosted a Mustache themed 40th birthday party for our Super Man. She and I had been hard at work for a couple of weeks cutting mustaches, framing fun ‘stache themed signs and collecting pictures to craft a collage of all Hubby’s 40 years. This was our first big party at our new place and we were all a little extra nervous. The large covered patio area turned out to be a great location (minus the serious lack of available parking) The turn out was amazing. We had over 40 guests in attendance. Everyone from my in-laws to aunts, uncles, cousins, long time friends, newer friends and best friends. Being surrounded by so much love was an overwhelming blessing and by far the very best gift.
Here is the highlight reel…
The birthday boy, myself (in a fun tee I ordered here, they even changed the tee color to suit me) and our beautiful daughter “Midge” (cause at 5’9″ she is still a shorty to me).
I do a little catering and cake making on the side, I’d love to make it a more full-time career, but for now I am happy to have the experience of putting together and running large events, it really makes hosting a party for 40 a cinch. Owning all the catering supplies is a big help too. I cooked up Trav’s favorites, carne asada and chile-lime chicken tacos, red rice, refried pinto beans, black beans, salsa, chips and all the toppings.
This hunk is my big brother. He was up in Reno for work for the week and drove home the day before, making sure to stop into his favorite brewery on route and picked up a tasty brew for me along with a great hoodie for the Hubby.
This was the theme of my day, my hands were so full I could hardly find a free moment to grab a bite to eat. I actually ducked into the kitchen for a fast minute to finally get a little grub. It is hard work being the hostess and caterer. Balancing the refilling of food, working the crowds, giving tours of the homestead (Thank goodness it’s just our backyard, I may have had to hire staff if I had more things to tour) I just love that I have my hands full of all I do, fresh eggs, scratch made foods, family and a full heart.
Earlier I shared that I cater and cake make. I don’t just bake your average sheet and layer cakes. I like to play with my food and create sculpted cakes that don’t look like cake. With the theme being Mustache, everyone was betting that I had crafted a cake to fit the theme. But having had a mustache longer than I’ve known him , (in fact, I thought he may have been born with it till I started going through his baby pictures) Trav is also known for his affinity for a certain “silver bullet” beer. So….
That’s what I made! I always bake a carrot cake for Hubby’s birthday but this year I added this Reese’s Overload Cake. I just had to make that one as well since Reese’s are Travis’ favorite sweet treat (well, after me of course)
I just love this picture. Almost as much as I love my husband. He was so surprised by my cake (he had seen the Reese’s one prior to the party but I had kept the custom carrot cake under wraps until the big reveal at the party) He said the sweetest thing. “I don’t know how she does it, but I am still surprised by the cakes she makes.” AWE…
The details are all hand-painted on and took about 3 hours. inside is 5 layers of carrot cake with cream cheese frosting. You can see more of the cakes I make here.
For some of our guests, this was their first time visiting our new place. After taking such a hard hit in 2012 it was so nice to finally stop telling and just show them all that we have landed on our feet and are doing far better than just surviving, we are thriving. My heart overflowed with joy as we shared or home, our new path and our happiness with so many family and friends. To step back and watch as the young and (not-so) young explored the chickens and garden was the biggest treat of the day. Many questions were asked, more were answered and a new light was shed on who Travis, Midge and I have begun to grow into. I hope one day we can have a gathering much like this weekend’s on the land that we dream of owning. To see the wonder and surprise in their eyes as they took in the sights and absorbed the knowledge we so proudly shared, was an incredible feeling that I hope to recreate again and again.
When I set out with planning this party I had just one goal in mind. I just wanted a celebration that, without doubt, would make certain that Travis knew how much love, friendship and admiration he is constantly surrounded by. I had no idea that a by-product of this party would be a profound validation that the path we recently stumbled upon is the truest path we have yet to discover in our lives. I have hosted many parties over the years, but this was, by far, the most fulfilling, unpretentious, life affirming experience, we as a family, have had. After this weekend I have no doubt we are right where we need to be and are headed in the direction we are supposed to be headed.